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Let me say two things from the outset: yes, I am young in age and in time in ministry, and no, I cannot read the heart conditions of the men from the statements (which is not my aim here).
The first reason given is, “The church has grown as much it will under my leadership.” In reality, God grew the church you are at. Your leadership was not the catalyst, although God may have used it. If God is the one who grew the church because of the leadership he equipped you with, can he not and will he not, provide you with the tools and strengths you need to press forward; or possibly put others around you that are properly equipped?
The second reason given was, “I am just not a good fit for this church.” Here I see two options, either God did not call you there to begin with or God called you there and he knew about your differences in culture, etc. when he did so. Does the ministry of the gospel and connection to people not transcend cultural boundaries?
Next, pastors reason that “I’m spending most of my time putting out fires.” Here we have an outward display of inner heart issues. First, you cannot change hearts, God does that. Your first step then is to plead with the sovereign Lord in prayer to change hearts which motivate these fires. Second, Paul wrote Romans for this reason. Don’t you think there was some backbiting in a congregation divided between Jews and Gentiles? Paul wrote to assure them that you are one in Christ, all with sin, all forgiven without regard to heritage, works, or the law, but by grace through faith. Paul goes on to call the church to live amongst one another as if chapters 1-11 are true.
The fourth reason is similar to the first, “The church has grown too large for my leadership skills.” Refer to my responses there. God called and equipped, he can provide.
Lastly, “The church needs to relocate, and I’m not the person to lead them.” Again, if God called you to the church and is calling and leading the church in this direction, then do you not believe he can make adequate provision? Pray that God will raise someone up with a background in construction or real estate that can come along side you and provide expertise. Pastors don't have to be the one with every skill needed for the task. The Church is a body with many parts.
In conclusion, maybe we as pastors have let our society’s view of marriage and commitment affect our commitment to churches. I don't mean that a pastor makes a covenant until death with a church when he goes there. I do mean, when things get tough in the relationship you think you can bail out for something easier and more appealing. What if you stuck in it, even when you don’t like it, and let God sanctify you through it and through your weakness, displaying his sovereign, abounding greatness and grace; unless God really is moving you to a new church because of his specific plan and purpose? If so, God can do that without you shopping your résumé around and looking for an out.